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Hey everyone,
So here is my story. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and we haven’t had Sex ? yet. She wants to wait. Whe nthat special time comes I want to be ready and able to satisfy her. I want it to last longer than 60 seconds! We are both virgins so I need a Fleshlight ? that is exactly like her. What should I get?
Hopefully somebody knows.
Thanks,
youngboy1

Ok, so I’m 18, gonna get a fleshjack v soon.

Just been reading over the forums and I see a lot of things about this ‘deathgrip’.

Could anyone inform me of what it is? I imagine its what Spock from Star Trek does but with your dick, but thats just my interpretation ^^

Now im a bit of a horny bugger, masturbate most days (24/7), and sometimes two or more times, and have done so since age 15-16 (can’t remember when I started, theres been so many )

now my question is, ive been using my hand the entire time, and i think over the years my penis has developed more veins (im not sure if this is just puberty or because im doing it so much, and if so is this deathgrip?)

By you, the reader’s standards and history, have I been over-wanking? If so will it cause problems like impotence or nerve damage in the future, and loss of sensation?

When i get my fl i imagine ill be using it at the same rate i masturbate. Do you think its the amount i masturbate or the means I do so?

I know there are a lot of questions here but if you could take time to answer ? them it would be great and reassuring

its getting a bit unsightly having a veiny penis and ideally would like it to stop its develop and reduce the veinyness (if that is even possible!)

And of course, if i have deathgrip, how can i get rid of it?!!!???!!

I got my first flesh light thats being delivered to me in a couple days. After i receive I was thinking about getting more inserts if i like the one i got. And what i plan to do is have one case and store my other inserts somewhere else but iM not sure where to store them. Would a plastic ziploc bag work or a shoe box work? Do the inserts need to get air circulated in them?

I ordered my first Fleshlight ? on Tuesday and right now its in transit ! I can’t wait, I ordered the wonder wave ? lady ? ! Is that a good choice?

Well i figured i would post my way of using my Fleshlight ?. Although i do have the original Pussy ? Fleshlight ?, and it might be more difficult with some of the more intense fleshlights ? out there. Haven’t tried this technique with the other models, but maybe in the future i will.

Ok here is the technique:
First off you can use your hand with this technique as well, but i found it to be 100 times harder. Using your Fleshlight ? will make this easier. (at least with the lesser sensitive ones since that’s the one i have)

is it possible for males to have multiple orgasm? yes if you practice this technique a lot it is definitely possible. even when having Sex ? with a girl. This method will both make you last a long time and give you multiple orgasms. I found out about it by reading up on tantric Sex ?. but i warn you, there is a lot of BS around this subject as well. Tantric Sex ? includes breathing excersizes and meditation, which i personally don’t believe in. (although it might intensify the orgasm, but try it out this way first).

So the trick is to masturbate like you normally do, and when you are about to climax use the muscle that you use to clench your but cheaks together. i don’t know the technical name, so i will just call it the ass muscle lol. Ok so when you are about to climax clench your ass muscles together. it will feel like your holding back your sperm. which is exactly what it does. when you are halfway in your climax STOP moviing the Fleshlight ?. In real Sex ? you would do the same, if the girl is on top tell her to stop moving. I usually move the Fleshlight ? all the way down. That way you don’t move it accidently. because too much friction and you lose control. So when the orgasm slowly fades, wait for 20 seconds or so… if your watching porn ? just keep watching for 20 seconds, then start all over. if you get good you can have an endless amount of orgams, all extremely intense. Now i do have some more pointers, but since i don’t really talk to anyone about this before i made this post, these pointers might be different for other people and not as usefull.

To even intensify the orgasm a lot more, if your about 1/4 of your way into a climax move the Fleshlight ? all the way to the top and move it down extremely slow. SUPER SLOW you will have an imense orgasm. BUT don’t do this the first time you use this technique or you will come and not be able to go on because of that after Sex ? feeling

Often i do ejaculate after my first orgasm, but if you can keep your ass muscle clenched till the orgams goes away.. you can keep going without having that super sensitive - stop having Sex ? - feeling.

Now i do have to say that i was jacking off like this myself for about 6 months before i got a Fleshlight ?.. and i was able to go up to 10 orgasms when i really put my mind to it, but it is extremely hard. when i got the Fleshlight ? i was able to go up to 30.. but then your already masturbating ? for 30 min plus so that’s more then enough, so i usually quit at that point.

I would like to see if this method works on other people as well since it has changed my Sex ? life completely. I have only been able to try it out on 1 girl and since it was a one night stand i didn’t explain what i was doing. so i had 2 orgasms when i was on top, but when we changed positions she kept moving so i came. (now with this technique i was having Sex ? for about 30 minutes. but i am sure that if you have a girlfriend and you explain to her that when you tell her to stop moving, and she does. you should be able to have very long sessions. intense for both partners!

So let me know if this technique works for you. I will check my post once in a while, so if you got any questions just post them and i will try and reply them all.

Last pointer. you need to be really strong at first. since you are used to coming during an orgasm. but in my case i can stop with ease now, and build it up again. Sometimes I can have 3 orgams very fast after each other.

Good luck!

Hey, I am sorry for posting this but I can’t seem to find a thread that I found a few months back. It contained a guide for using the STU ? Fleshlight ?, and how to ? use it to maximize and gain Stamina ?…

it had things like number of thrusts and methods etc..

can anyone lead me in the right direction, or where this "manual" may exist now?

does the BYO come with Lube ??

Ok, here is my story/review:

I saw an online ad for the Fleshlight ? Girls on another forum and decided to give it a click to see what was up. I had heard of the Fleshlight ? before, but never explored it at all due to the fact I was actually a bit self-concious about thinking of buying a "Sex ? toy ?," let alone actually making a purchase. I saw that they had a Fleshlight ? that was made to be like Sandee Westgate and that peaked my interest greatly. I am definately attracted to her and love watching her videos. I figured that if I ordered a SW-ww ? that it might enhance my experience when viewing her videos.

After thinking it over I finally said "F-it" and bought one. Unfortunately for me I ordered it late on a Thursday night and the order ? wasn’t processed until late Friday. This put me in a spot to where I had to wait until the following Tuesday to get it. Needless to say it was on my mind all weekend long. I was wondering if it was truely what everyone has said it was.

So Tuesday comes along and I get home from work and pick my package up. I immediately open it up to see what was inside - Fleshlight ? tube, insert, SW picture postcard, instructions, and small bottle of Gun Oil H2O. The box was definately smaller than I had thought it would be.

I opened up the packaging that the insert was in to feel it. It was definately the closest thing to skin I’ve ever felt when it comes to something trying to immitate flesh. It doesn’t really feel all that ‘rubbery’ at all. I tried to penetrate it just straight out of the box. LMFAO, that did not work very well.

*A tip for all new users - MAKE SURE YOU USE SOME Lube ?*

Once I applied some Gun Oil H2O I slid in with little problem. Definately a unique feel. I am a virgin and so I have never penentrated anything and never felt anything that fleshy and tight so this was all new to me. One thing I did notice is the fact that I think I might be a bit thicker than most guys and needed to use a pretty fair amount of Lube ? to penetrate it.

Using the tube felt VERY awkward. I just couldn’t get a good ‘feel’ or ‘rhythm’ using it. It adds significant weight to the entire unit and I just didn’t like it so I just used the insert itself. This allowed me to have more freedom and allowed me to apply more pressure around myself if desired.

Another thing that I noticed is that I think I have greatly desensitized myself through the masterbation technique(s) I use. I currently simply use my thumb and forefinger to ‘pinch’ my foreskin and stimulate the nerves. I can usually get myself off very easily this way within only a few minutes. Obviously there is no stimulation to the shaft area and so this type of stimulation now from the Fleshlight ? is foreign to me.

The first use was awkward to say the least, but I have read on here that it is normal to feel that way on the first use and that you have to get used to it. It has progressively gotten better since the first use. I have also used water to heat it up and that has also helped somewhat.

The position I have had the most success with would be a ‘missionary’ style position with me supporting myself with my chest/knees and thrusting into the insert and using my hands to provide support to the sleeve and providing pressure when desired.

I hope this review ? helps anyone who is thinking about making a purchase of a Fleshlight ? and I would appreciate any comments/tips some more experienced users might have.

Is there anyone out there that prefers this Lube ? over all others?
It dries out ridiculously fast, even when it’s watered down a bit. My transition from Astroglide to ID Glide was alright, but going from those two to this one is terrible.
I’ve already had to use like 1/6 of the bottle and it’s only been 2 days.

Hello, I am about to receive my first Fleshlight ?, and it will almost be impossible for me to clean it. I am in the Coastal Guard Training Academy, and although I do have a private room, I never have private access to the bathroom or shower (yes it is a communial shower, so I shower with 6 other men at a time).

So basically, I want to find a way to use the Fleshlight ? without really having to ever clean it. Do I have any options?

I was thinking that I could just wear a condom and use the Fleshlight ?… would this work, or do I still need to put Lube ? in the insert??

Any help and advice is appreciated!